When predators toy with their prey
(Note: for the umpteenth time, anonymous drive-by commentary is NOT ALLOWED. It's written in BIG BOLD LETTERS at the top of the blog and then again in the comments section. This is not exactly rocket science to figure out, after all.)
The full documentary is definitely worth watching, at least if you are of a somewhat cynical disposition with respect to human nature. And, it has to be said, cynicism about human nature, and especially about women, comes easily these days.
It is easy to convince oneself that there are no good women left - and videos like that one certainly do not help in this regard. There is considerable truth behind the sentiment - one merely has to pay attention to what women do, rather than what they say, to realise that the gulf between word and deed for women has never been wider than it is in the present day.
Women say that they just want to be loved and looked after by a good man - before they have affairs with men who treat them like disposable trash.
Women say that they want children and families "someday" - while spending their most fertile and productive child-bearing years working in jobs (remember, women have jobs, not careers) that they do not particularly enjoy and screwing around with any man who catches their fancy.
Women say that they want full equality - but when rubber meets road, and they are told that "full equality" means being required to register for the draft, suddenly, they no longer want to be equal.
None of this, by the way, is news, and there is nothing useful at all to be found in moaning about it. The fact is that when female nature is allowed to go unchecked by either masculine control or strong cultural norms against infidelity and immorality, women - and men too - simply go to seed very quickly.
There is nothing wrong with accepting female nature for what it is - this is required in order to enjoy any kind of a relationship with a woman, and in order for men to understand how to act like MEN.
The other lesson to be learned from that video, of course, goes right back to my original article: do NOT turn a ho into a housewife!!!
One would think that this would be well understood now by most men. Unfortunately it is not. There are still plenty of men out there who will happily wife up a woman who is young but promiscuous (either by choice or circumstances).
You will find such men quite thick on the ground in Southeast Asia, which is not terribly surprising; when you are on an overseas gig in a strange country and you are paid vast sums of money (by local standards) to be an expatriate worker, then you are going to try to find someone and something on whom and on which to spend your time and money.
You will also find many such men in Western nations who are chronically unsuccessful with women and resort to less than sensible means to secure female companionship. There was an example a few years ago in Austria a few years back where an Austrian millionaire married a prostitute, and then when he got into a car crash she absconded with all of his gifts to her and an expensive car to go ride the cock carousel a bit longer with a new boyfriend.
Unfortunately this trend is going to get worse - much worse - as the Sexual and Marriage Market Places in the Western world continue to implode under the combined pressure of ever more numbers of weak men and ever fewer restrictions on female behaviour.
As I said before, it is easy to conclude that there are no good women left. Certainly that has been my sentiment of late. However, that does not allow us as men to absolve ourselves of our responsibility to continue moving forward, building our lives, and becoming better at being men.