Some tips for the ladies
We in the Manosphere get a lot of stick for constantly bagging on women. We are called all sorts of horrible names by the useful idiots of the Left as a result. Now, normally, I could not care less what a bunch of leftist numpties have to say about us and what we think. But, since we are men, and since as men it is incumbent upon us to do more than just bitch about things, I figure it might be worth a few minutes of my time to mansplain a few important concepts to the womenfolk.
But the vast majority of men cannot and will not do this, because cold-approaching is an extremely unnatural and uncomfortable thing for men to do. It is not something that we are taught, unless we are extremely fortunate as children - and most of us never were.
This does not guarantee that he will actually do it, of course. Fifty years of feminist lunacy have left men neutered and adrift, unable to reconcile what our balls and brains are telling us to do with what a society gone insane is telling us is acceptable.
(If you really want to know what it is like when the roles are reversed - check this out. Fair warning: you are in for a rude shock.)
As our older colleague Relampago Furioso pointed out really quite well very recently, if you really think about it, you will quickly realise that the vast majority of women have exactly ONE thing to offer men: sex.
At this point I must part ways with some of the more militant MGTOW types and point out that it is, in fact, possible for men and women to enjoy happy and fulfilling relationships that go beyond mere sex.
As a certain Inquisitor Magus once put it in a comment on this very blog, "Life with a bad woman is surely Hell. But life without a good woman is not very much better." And the fact is that some women out there do, in fact, have what it takes to be good girlfriends, wives, and mothers.
These are the women that single ladies today should look to as role models.
It is easy for us as men to take the "black pill" and simply give up. It is deeply tempting to do so; a man can only take so many disappointments before he swears off women completely and walks away from them. One recent example of such a disappointment comes to mind - it involves a friend of an acquaintance who apparently now has two boyfriends and had sex with one of them only after he bought her an Apple watch, and evidently will "choose" which one she really wants to be with based on how expensive each one's gifts to her are.
(Not coincidentally, the young lady in question is Eastern European. Make of that what you will, but for future reference - the word for "whore" in Russian is курва.)
This, from a girl that I was told was open and honest in her relationships with men, and who supposedly was a cut above the extreme shit-testing and calculated gold-digging that you often find in the FSU nations.
Ladies - it may seem like a tall order to be a good woman these days, but really, it isn't. The kind of woman that I refer to above is your competition. You just have to exercise a bit of judgement, a bit of self-control, and keep your legs closed long enough to make a sensible decision.
Unfortunately, most of you Western women raised on feminist propaganda all of your lives will fail this test.
The few of you that pass it have the opportunity to become the kind of women that men will fight for, will protect, will work hard to support, and will want to have children with.
Those kinds of women used to enjoy a place of honour and exalted respect in strong, masculine, Christian societies. Sadly we live in a society that is none of these things. But you have the opportunity to help turn the tide.
It is not actually that hard to be a good woman. Eat right. Work out a bit and walk a lot to keep yourself svelte and beautiful. Grow your hair out. Don't get tattoos. Learn how to cook - and get really good at it. Read a good book once in a while instead of wasting time watching reality TV bullshit on the idiot box. Clean up your dwelling place once in a while - better yet, if you latch on to a good guy, clean his apartment and do his laundry. Trust me on this - he will nearly die from shock and then will look at you very differently.
After much (rather enjoyable) shitlordery and mansplaining, I leave you ladies with one simple point to consider:
Who are the happiest women that you have ever met?
Are they the club skanks who stumble out of bars and discos at 2am in short skirts with heels askew, drunk off their tits, taking an Uber home or heading out to some random guy's apartment for a quick and emotionless bang?
Are they the career-obsessed women in their mid-thirties with a long string of broken relationships behind them, the best of their looks fading in the rearview mirror, and nothing much to show for the long hours and hard nights beyond a fancy apartment full of stuff but no real memories of much worth?
Are they the cock-carousel riders who spent their twenties partying their way around the world, banging every guy that they fancied in every country that they visited, only to suddenly wake up around their early thirties and realise that their time to secure
Or are they the women who, in their mid-to-late twenties (preferably earlier) got married, dropped out of the workforce, had a couple of kids, and created happy and comfortable homes?
I personally know two women who did exactly that. They remain two of my closest friends and women whom I admire greatly. They are also two of the happiest women that I have ever met.
It really isn't much of a contest.
Ladies - the world that you grew up in lied to you all of your lives. Men like me are here to tell you the truth. You can ignore it, and go back to sleep. Or maybe, just maybe, one or two of you might sit up, pay attention, and listen.
It's up to you.